I am tall. Not giant status but still tall enough to audition for America’s Next Top Model (I might not have anything else but I have the height).
I hate to be picky about appearance but I do have an issue with height. Guys don’t have to be ridiculously tall (but it definitely helps).
I’ve tried to make it obvious on profiles by having a picture with my friend where I am significantly taller than her. But I don’t know if people pick up on this.
Even if they did realise-what if they are into me being tall. But they’re not tall. I have a friend who really hasn’t got the hint (by hint I mean literally in actual words turning him down). But he still gives me awkward hugs and honestly if we were together I would feel like more of a parent than a partner. Am I being really shallow? I met this guy sitting down and wasn’t attracted to him before I knew that he was half my size (this is no exaggeration). But it got me thinking…
Yes I think I am shallow. But how do I approach this. Do I outright say only tall guys need apply. I mean I hate having a tick list. But it works both ways. Some guys aren’t into tall girls, I have to deal with that and I guess I understand as as much as I try I couldn’t date someone much smaller than me. I’m not a sloucher, but I suppose for the right guy, you never know.
Lots of Love